Middlesex Meetups
Hello!
If you’ve found your way to this page, it’s likely because someone wants you to join Middlesex Meetups. Hopefully they told you a little about the group, but just in case they didn’t, we’ve put this page together to explain it.
Believe it or not, the Boston-area has lots of house parties, lifestyle themed events, and yes, even clubs. While this is great for lifestyle veterans, these options aren’t low-risk, or newbie friendly. In the Kink community there are events known as “Munches” for just this reason; meet and greets held in vanilla bars, where everyone is dressed appropriately and there’s no expectation of play. We wanted to create a similar sex-positive atmosphere as a way for our friends to meet each other.
Our Meetups
We host a monthly get-together where couples and single women can meet like-minded individuals. Initially we invited our closest lifestyle friends but our numbers have steadily grown as we’ve expanded the circle to include our friends’ friends. It’s a very welcoming atmosphere and a great first step for people interested in exploring the lifestyle. The events are held at completely vanilla bars and restaurants where there’s no expectation of play, and no over-the-top sexy behavior or dress. Think after work drinks with ulterior motives.
Our Members
The group is compromised of couples and single women who have been personally vetted by existing members of the group. Ages run the gamut, with most falling somewhere between 25 and 55. Our members have busy professional careers, loving families and active social lives outside of the lifestyle. For this reason, among others, we place a high emphasis on discretion.
What's Next?
If after attending a meetup you’re interested in joining and we feel like it’s a good fit, we’ll send you an invite to our private Slack group. Slack is a secure collaboration platform that allows us to continue the conversation between meetups. It’s also the only place where we post the details of upcoming events.
Our meetups are held at bars and restaurants in Middlesex County, which means you’ll find us somewhere between Boston and 495. Past events have been held in Acton, Burlington, Framingham, Newton, Somerville and Waltham. We don’t publish the dates or locations of our events. One of our members needs to invite you. So get out there, make a profile on Feeld, SwingLifestyle, Quiver or Kasidie and start connecting with people!
If this all sounds like your cup of tea, click below to join our community.